Looking For a Group, Not a Corp

As of late, I've begun getting burned out. I've been flying solo (with alts) for over half a year now, and haven't regretted my time. But lately, it's feeling...repetitive. I login my 3 main characters, find a wormhole, huff some gas, run some sites, pop some rats, rinse and repeat. Occasionally do something stupid for the fun of it that generally causes me to lose a ship.

My past experiences with corps have never been good for long. It always goes one of two ways:

1. Leader is a dictator that wants you to fly what they want, how they want, when they want, with their (shitty) fit. As soon as you do anything they don't like, you're set red, and good luck getting your stuff out of "their" space.
2. Great group of people, all treating the game like a game, rather than everything having to be min/maxed. Leader ends up leaving to join a larger group, or merges said corp with larger alliance. Half the group leaves and the new corp / alliance has issue #1.

When I run into a dictator, the other issue I run into is having to be on when they want you to. So if you're more casual like me, you're not on enough and thus have to be kicked. They basically run the game like a second job.

Thus I'm coming to y'all to ask if there's other groups of people that are willing to just fleet up and fly occasionally. Not a corp where we have to do what the all mighty leader wants us to do, but just a discord or in game chat where if you're on, we're doing said thing, if you want join in, fleet up.