Who was wrong in this situation [20M][18F]( LDR)

Last night, my boyfriend and I were watching a movie together. He sometimes falls asleep during movies, so when it ended, I asked him if he had fallen asleep. He said “no he had only dozed off”. I told him a few times that I thought he had actually fallen asleep, and he got annoyed and said that he already told me what happened and asked why I kept saying the same thing,After that, I dropped it

Later, he said he wanted to sleep and didn’t want to talk at all , because he was tired . I was a bit upset because I’m used to talking to him before bed,The only thing I asked after that was whether he had taken his eye drops, and then we went to sleep.

The next day, I brought up what happened because the way he spoke to me bothered me. He said the issue was that I kept repeating myself even though he had already answered, and that he was tired. He also said that I kept starting conversations before bed and that he was fed up with it. What confused me is that after he said he wanted to sleep, I only asked him one question.also , he said that I keep staring stupid problems

I told him that I understood he was tired, and I admitted that I shouldn’t have kept repeating the same point,At the same time, I felt like his reaction was harsher than it needed to be

The conversation turned into a bigger argument. I felt like he thought I was trying to make him look like the bad guy, even though I admitted where I was wrong. I was just trying to explain why I was hurt. I never meant to start an argument, I just wanted him to understand that I really didn’t like the way he treated me yesterday, even if I was pushy .

In the end, he said he was going to hang up. I was still talking and explaining my side when he suddenly ended the call.

Be honest, was I making a big deal out of nothing?or was I right to be upset?

Posted Jun 11, 2026, 10:33 PM UTC

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