AIO FOR BEING MAD AT MY UPCOMING BIRTHDAY PARTY

AITA for hating my birthday party Context: I'm 17f and I came on Reddit because I'm really mad.I'm turning 18 in August and an hour ago my mum said to me I would be having a party that was the first problem. I hate parties I just find them boring. Then it got worse. We are having 3 of my mum's friends come over in August for a the weekend concert and they are flying in the day before my party so my mum has made the guests them , her , my sister and her boyfriend. Not really friendly.they all smoke and get drunk whenever these type of parties happen. I mean what am I going to speak to them about? I feel like it's unfair to me as my sister and mum and both getting a trip each. I'm upset as I know they will forget its my birthday I know it's sounds spoilt but I feel like as a kid I deserve a good birthday to become a 18 year old. They will all be talking Bulgarian (which I don't speak) and talking about adult matters. I've talked to my mum about this and she has put her foot down saying the party will be happening and that I can't spend it with my dad. Last time someone came over for my birthday from Bulgaria I was quite young but I remember the entire day being forgotten and they even kicked me but I got in trouble (again with my mum) I feel like I'm being ungrateful and spoiled (as my mum is saying) but I feel like it will just be for it to be an excuse for them to catch up with eachother AITA?