Argument with a friend

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We have a group chat of 5-6 friends and we are in the same. One of my male friends was sung to date a female colleague in my team. She isn't as close to as the rest but we are pretty cordial. I set things up and they have been dating for a couple of months now.

Good for them is guess. Our group chat has 5 of us OG friends. My (26F) boyfriend(27 m) later added and then this friend's (27 m) girlfriend (26 f) added recently.

My boyfriend has over the time become a really good friend of the guys in the group and they all hangout together in my absence as well.

2 of these guys are childhood besties and they have a habit of mildly bullying people. My boyfriend is a very calm man and he never retaliates and I don't feel like jummpimg in between because I never saw this whole thing as a big deal as he jokes around too.

My boyfriends BIL (jeejaji) is staying over since a few days and he keeps visiting beacaue of work as his family lives in another city.

We were joking about powercuts happening these days and I said my poor boyfriend keeps getting thrown out of matches while playing in his PS5.

Now this friend just non chalatly said "sahi hua aisa hi hona chahie" which kinda irked me already. My boyfriend was busy during this whole thing.

He then went ahead and said This guy must be having an illicit relationship with his Jijaji and I fucking lost my shit.

This guy before dating his current girlfriend was involved with multiple married woman and had no shame in admitting that he is into bhabhis

In retaliation I said "Sab tere jaise Bhabion ke pichhe laad ni tapkate apni fetish apne tak rakhein"

This unfolded into a full fledged argument about how he was only joking and I was dragging personal stuff. If my boyfriend was a girl he wouldn't have said something like that blah blah. He even went on to say that if I have an issue with him we can sit and sort it out lol as if I give a fuck.

people should know when they fuck around they ought to find out.

IDGAF if anyone thinks I went too far exposing his BS like that but ain't no manchild disrespecting my partner in my presence and gets away without a scratch.

He's now gotta explain to his girl why he was so on fire lol.