My mother told me one thing and my brother another, is it wrong for me to feel angry?

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I’m getting married to my boyfriend this year. About 3–4 months ago, my mother told me, “Don’t think you can come back to this home.” She wasn’t talking about visits—she meant that if I had problems in my marriage or with my in-laws, I shouldn’t expect to return home.

Last week, I brought this up with my brother. He was shocked and initially didn’t believe me. He said that our mother had told him the exact opposite: that if I ever faced difficulties in my sasural, they would bring me back without a second thought.

I find it strange that she would say two completely different things. To be honest, I do think that if I were facing serious harassment or abuse, my family would probably take me back. But my mother already taunts and criticizes me so much that I can’t imagine what life would be like if I had to return home after a failed or troubled marriage.

(Took help of AI to rewrite this)

Posted Jun 12, 2026, 12:47 PM UTC · locked

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