30 M USA Seeking genuine connections

Age 30-39

Hey my name is Johnny and I’ve been trying to find and build a genuine connection where it could possibly last for like 10+ years. I know genuine connections are absolutely rare but I am ready to keep pushing through just to find someone that is actually genuine and looking for the same thing as me. Someone willing to put in effort into building a real connection. I want to get to know you for you and I hope you would want the same from me. Building a genuine connection doesn’t take overnight and I just want the both of us to know that if you choose to send a message.

I won’t respond back if:

* your goal is solely NSFW.

* you are married, I apologize as I feel like the time and dedication to build a genuine connection will not be there and it wouldn’t be fair for the both of us. I would always prefer you talked to your beloved ones rather with me. I hope you understand where I’m coming from

Here’s a bit about me.

* Asian American

* likes watching anime, k drama, movies (My hero academia, haikyuu!, demon slayer, jujutsu kaisen, black clover, etc!) (Lord of the rings / hobbit / ring of power fan)

* music lover (Listens to almost everything except rap)

* enjoys making other’s day a little bit better if possible.

* values honesty, loyalty, and respect in life

* big foodie and likes to cook :)

* bit of a gamer as I am currently playing valorant in NA and open to trying other games

(Would be awesome if you also play games too!!!)

* super shy and introverted but entirely different when the connection is established :) (If you’re the same, even more reasons to send a message)

* non judgmental and open minded about most things

* does not like politics or heated debates

* purple and pink are my favorite colors

* INFJ (advocate)

* enjoys playing basketball and keep up to date with nba

* discord and texting are my main source of communication (willing to try something new and jump straight to voice call just lmk beforehand)

I met my best friend here hoping to get lucky and test my luck one more time

PS: Building a genuine connection is big to me so please do not take this lightly. 21+ only and please be mature! Type mangos so I know you actually read my post. Thank you for reading my post :) 🙏

PSS: I do prefer USA/CAN atm but it’s mainly just a preference

Posted Jun 12, 2026, 12:47 PM UTC

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