Kinda hate when nt people use nd communities and resources for their validation.

I understand that community is a natural human desire, and realistically a lot of these resources should be available to *everybody*, and everyone deserves a community, but also neurodivergent people should be allowed a community for just neurodivergent people. If I'm trying to make a group chat for people with black hair why would I want someone who's been a lifelong blond to tell me what it's like living with black hair?Especially when there are hundreds of thousands of groupchats made specifically for blonds. That's what it feels like to me I guess.