Lolita

I want some opinions about it. I've finished the movie and reading the book currently. The question is do you feel like she's glorifying or is she writing her songs (Carmen, Put me in a movie, off to the races, etc) because she as well as many other young women have experienced being groomed and manipulated (at least I have). Is she glorifying or is she singing about her experiences that happen to relate heavily to Lolita's. I'm just curious about everyone's opinions about it. No wrong answers and no arguing at all! I'm just very curious