I think I might like my friend and I don't know what to do about it

So, I'm kind of just using this post as a way to get all of my thoughts out. For starters I'm aroace, I had a crush only one time in my life. One thing I have noticed is that when I become really close to a person I get really excited. I want to be around all the time, I wait for their texts, ect. Then I think I might have a crush on them, however if I just take a step back I realize I don't. I'm just very excited to have them as a friend, and care about them a lot. So that's what I did I took a step back and realized I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with her. I'd love to have movie nights together. I would love to hold her hand and snuggle (Which we do already... but you know not in a romantic)

One problem maybe though, Shes Lesbian, I'm genderqueer and use She/They/He pronouns. I don't know if the He part would some how... like... interfere? I don't know if what I'm saying makes any sense. Because I also use He/Him pronouns would that somehow interfere with us dating, or her having a crush on me?

Anyways, I'm not going to tell her how I feel yet. I still want to see if this is just me being overly excited about a friendship. It was good to get these thoughts out.