30m [M4F] Looking to build something longterm. Tired of the ghosting after a couple day. #EST #Michigan

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I am a very down to earth and patient person. I just hate taking the time to try and get to know someone for them to just randomly ghost, unadd or block. I hate using the work clingy, since it has a bad stigma to it. But, I want someone I can give my time and attention to. Someone to chat to daily, make my dumb dad jokes and witty comments. I know life gets busy, I’m not asking for chatting 24/7. Just more than a message or two a day.

A bit about me: I’m 6ft, blue eyes and short brown hair. Usually have a beard but have to shave from time to time. I enjoy reading, gardening, gaming and playing chess! I’ve been hitting the gym this year and working on eating healthier. But currently have that “dad” bod.

I’m in a roommates situation in my marriage with a dead bedroom. Not looking to change our situation but to give each other the attention we are missing. Although I know it’s unlikely, I’m not against the idea of things leading to IRL. Not that they have to.

Posted Jun 12, 2026, 12:48 PM UTC

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