My family is the only obstacle in my life right now

My parents especially my mom constantly tries to control every aspect of my life, what I would eat , what career I would choose, what to wear etc. I am 26 F, recently graduated from my professional career, have a long time stable partner with whom I can share everything but the moment she finds out that I shared anything with him she lashes out saying that he(and his family) probably did some kala jadoo on me because I prefer them over my own parents. My mom makes me count the things she did for me "out of love" that I must repay. Constant negative conversations, complaining, her affair, dad's misogyny is making me crazy. She constantly says that my boyfriend is with me just because he is eyeing on our property without any proof, recently we had our roka and she made scene even on such special day for me. I totally accept that she has her own trauma but she keeps dumping it on me and my sister.

Baap ke toh alag hi chonchle🥲

I got wfh job, hopefully I will move out soon.