I hate it when other people keep me in the delusion that I am not ugly using fake positivity.

I can't stand it. Why do people do this? Imagine getting bullied and never fitting in with others all your life because of your appearance and when you finally decide that you've had it and want to do something about it, people tell you "Nooo, you're pretty. You don't need to change anything about yourself", "Being pretty is what's on the inside", "Just be confident and love yourself". Sure, that will definitely make me beautiful and worthy enough of basic human decency as a woman. Being confident is going to make people love and respect me. Thank you so fucking much. Don't get me wrong, empathizing with someone and being kind is one thing but blatantly lying to someone is worse than telling them directly that they aren't pretty. They could atleast try to improve themselves but no, you just gave them a false hope which probably won't last long enough once they go outside in the real world. The words "ugly" and "pretty" exist for a reason, if everyone was pretty..the word would have no meaning. I sometimes wonder if they say intentionally to make sure you stay in your delusion while being an ugly fuck in reality.