am i just screwed or is there a way to get over this

like i’m a queer trans dude and i genuinely dgaf who im with as long as we click yk but i always kinda like scared to try date women it sounds bad but im just not a top or dom whatsoever complete opposite and i guess that’s my downfall? as i would probably be expected to be that during intimacy and i just feel utterly embarrassed about it too cause i would need to bring that up and the probably likelihood of someone not minding would be so rare at least round my area i suppose and idk how to navigate it does anyone else feel this way at all? or is it just me