A loss for words

I am not very creative and often struggle to come up with things to say. I understand that dirty talk very important part of a healthy sexual relationship and I get frustrated that I am not as creative and witty as I would like so this is why I am turning to Reddit for advice on what to say in the heat ofthe moment

What are some things I can say to a girl to come across as more dominant and spontaneous rather than being reactive?

Thank you! I’m trying to build my confidence after a break up.