First time for everything!

TLDR SBs who like sex, how long would you wait for an SD to be ready?

So me and my SD get on great, have a lot of fun together, he finacially supports me and we're sexually compatible but....he won't have sex with me! We had an evening planned with hotel booked but he cancelled it as didn't feel ready yet. l accepted this and didnt push the matter, and since then we've only met up in the day time. Dates aren't quite platonic, we'll kiss, but there's definitely no sex.

I know for some SBs this would be a dream arrangement but I actually like sex. It's an important part of a relationship for me and I'm a monogamous person, who dates exclusively, so I'm not getting it anywhere else either 🙈

So my question for the SBs who actually like sex is, how long would you give an SD to be comfortable? Its been 2 months now and we don't seem any closer to it happening.