37 (F4M) - #UK #EastMidlands. Looking for butterflies 🦋

I am looking for a friend, dare I say, secret boyfriend. I would like to build our own little escape where we can explore all facets of intimacy. With the right person, I know this can be amazing. I'd like to find something long-term. With that in mind, you should have some understanding of what it takes to make this work: consistency, communication, and a willingness to invest time. I love good morning and goodnight messages, regular chit‑chat, random pictures, and the occasional voice note or call. If your life isn’t set up for consistent, steady contact, we won’t be a good match. Let's build a judgment free zone where we can just be ourselves and explore without fear.

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A little about me: I’m Black, plus‑size, 5'6", married, and comfortable in my body. I want a man who genuinely appreciates that. I’m introverted (not shy), but once I feel comfortable with someone, I open up easily.

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About you: Ideally 38–49, I am not attracted to bigger men, married, white, at least 5'8". You should live near the East Midlands or be able to travel and meet at least once a month. Above all, be kind, courteous, and have some emotional awareness.

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I am not looking for a fleeting fling, FWB, or anything in between. I am self-assured and know what I want, it would be great if you are the same and have some prior experience with this. I am not planning to end my marriage, nor do I want to end yours. I will not talk about anything sexual in the beginning. I only respond to a few messages at a time, so if I never replied last time, it wasn't anything you said, feel free to message again.

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Let's give each other butterflies. Let's be each others reason to smile 😊.

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*notabot