34 [M4F] Bubbly, dirty, & hotter than my wife? Seeking long-term fwb
Hi there! I'm a 34 year old guy hoping to find a bubbly, flirty, and most importantly, dirty girl for a long-term online fwb. I'd like for us to be able to switch between SFW and NSFW conversation. I believe that developing and having a connection of some kind makes the dirty stuff that much better. It's nice to have more substance than just flirting and sexting all the time. Don't get me wrong, though, I still want plenty of that.
For transparency, I'm married and she doesn't know I'm on here. We have had a dead bedroom situation for a long time. It's rather complicated, and I'd rather not talk about it much. That said, I really, really get off on the "I'm hotter and better than your wife vibe" (my biggest kink the moment). If you're someone who really enjoys leaning into this, definitely message me.
You: Assertive, confident, and flirty. I'm drawn most to girls that are outgoing, bold, and "big personality" types. You don't necessarily need to be dominant, but having that confidence and desire to know you're sexy and flaunt it is a major turn on. I'm obsessed with big tits. The bigger the better. I'm also attracted to athletic or more slim body types (think thick-fit). I also love a girl with curves. Amazing hair is also a big bonus. I've found in the past that younger works best for what I'm wanting, but I'm open.
Me: 5'11, white, dad bod, dark hair with some gray, a beard, and glasses. I love reading, writing, watching TV, working out, and watching/following sports (mainly baseball and football).
Kinks: I'm very switchy. Homewrecking, cheating, tit play/worship, public play, cumplay, oral (giving and receiving), praise (giving and receiving), dirty talking, edging (receiving), mutual masturbation, jerk off encouragement & JOI (receiving), kissing, passionate sex. Fairly vanilla, but I'm open exploring to a certain extent.
Limits: humiliation, degradation, cucking, bathroom stuff.
Don't feel like you have to check every box! I love bold girls, so feel free to get creative with your first message.
I like to have at least a mental image of you, so a description of you is always welcome.
I'm in the central time zone. I'd prefer that you're somewhat close to that, but I'm fairly flexible.
I'm looking forward to hearing from you!
Posted Jun 12, 2026, 8:15 PM UTC · locked