Guy told me he’s not actively swiping, and now his profile shows the “signals” heart thing again?

34f Been on a couple dates with 33m. I actually am really starting to like him but am really trying to play it cool. We matched about a month ago, and I remember him having the “signals” beating heart thing when we first matched and started conversing. We’ve transitioned texting, so i hadn’t really looked at his profile again til this week.

On our last date he said, “I was pretty done with apps and ready to take a break. Then, we matched. I’m not actively swiping right now. Don’t feel pressured though, please don’t feel pressured.” I wasn’t really sure how to take that.

Anyways, I looked at his profile a couple days ago…and there was no beating heart anymore.

But then today, I looked at his profile just now…the beating heart is back.

Doesn’t this mean he is indeed actively swiping and messaging and just lied to me? I’m so bummed. I didn’t make him offer that admission about not swiping anymore. And I thought our last date was great and we are suppose to hang out again next week. I guess it wasn’t actually that great? How would you take this?