Are people actually serious about living their life as a gaal?

Hello, I’m F17. I have the privilege to be surrounded by likeminded friends who share the same views on Islam. Multiple have outwardly expressed that they are no longer Muslim and I haven’t explicitly said it, but I often agree with them or say my own views.
My problem is,I can’t tell if they are serious about actually wanting to live out their lives. I understand that everyone has their own values and beliefs, and some prioritise security and “belonging” over freedom and authenticity. I truly do understand that as I’m living that exact same lifestyle currently. Only I do plan on actually living my life in the future, moving out, getting a job that allows me to live for myself and eventually even get a partner.
Meanwhile, whenever I mention the idea of moving out, or wanting to do anything un-Islamic, I’m met with silence or awkwardness. It just confuses me. Because most of my friends are vocal about not being Muslim to me and reposting videos online for everyone to see. But when it comes down to actually living it out (even in the future) they all seem pretty opposed to it. I want to understand why because I feel like I’m being judgemental.