AIO for not feeling like talking to this guy a for bit until I process this..

Been seeing a guy for 4 months, he just told me he never let me in his bedroom because he didn’t want my makeup on his sheets. Is this a red flag or am I overthinking it?

33F. We always hooked up on his couch and I never thought much of it until recently and when he moved out I jokingly said ‘guess I never got promoted to the bedroom’ and he said ‘I would have but I didn’t want makeup on my sheets :/‘

I’m a POC so my foundation shows up brown on light fabric. He also once told me ‘you don’t have to wear makeup around me’ which I never fully understand why guys say that…

I haven’t responded in 12 hours because honestly it made me cry. Am I overreacting or is this kind of messed up? Also can someone explain why guys say the ‘you don’t have to wear makeup around me’ thing? He said that early on and I had an ex say ‘dont wear makeup..’ Like sorry I don’t have a 24hr face card 😭