looking for a fwb i can be genuine friends with too (im not interested in non fwb friendships atm)

quick note: I will ignore you if you dont introduce yourself, i dont expect a novel or anything but i dont want just a '23 hi', also pls comment if youre unable to dm me reddit is buggy

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hiyaaaaaa! im astella, a 20 year old she/they genderfluid gender disaster, i've been here looking for a fwb that i can also be genuine friends with but im struggling to find someone im compatible with twt, now before i introduce myself, if:

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you will not put any effort on your end to develop the friendship and solely rely on me to do the heavy lifting

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you are far from the CDT timezone

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are bad at texting

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barely share any interests (especially gaming)

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arent online a lot

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are cis (dont care if youre bi or gay or straight)

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are a couple with someone (i dont wanna be a part of any couple drama please twt)

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are anti femboys (yes i know the origins of the term and that there are people who still use it for what it originally used to be but the general meaning of the term changed and its a very positive community of feminine presenting men)

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the friendship will not work and we will eventually just stop talking, ive learnt from too many experiences and we can just skip going through that from the start.

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Anyways about me! I am a first year architecture student and I have a lot of games like most of the fromsoftware games, and resident evil games. I mostly play cod zombies and monster hunter (well also outcome memories on roblox), I also draw and make lyrics and if i like you a lot i'll send you random yt shorts and songs out of the blue or just blurt about a story i have been working on, cant wait to see you in my dms if youre interested! oh also just to warn you I am diagnosed with OCD, GAD, and depression, and i suspect i have autism and BPD (probably PTSD too) (also if you dont play the games i mentioned then mention what games you play i might have it).

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Now in terms of sexual stuff, (before i start, i dont want our sexual dynamic to be you showing off to me and me masturbating to you, it makes me feel like you arent actually attracted to me but rather just want an ego boost, i want us to both be attracted to each other) I am a submissive top, basically i like being a dominant bottom's dildo, i am fine with almost all kinks except age play, mommy/daddy stuff, and scat stuff, I am someone who does nudes a lot and expect you to be comfy doing them a lot too, and i get horny daily so if thats a deal breaker to you a fwb will not work sadly, 19-22 year olds only AND AGAIN NO CIS PEOPLE I WILL IGNORE AND BLOCK YOU IF YOURE CIS