connecting with other CC queers?

hey y'all, I have literally never posted anywhere on Reddit before so feel free to lmk if I added the wrong flair or if this is inappropriate for this sub!!

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I'm a very introverted gay trans guy so I generally have no problem staying in and avoiding big parties and festivals, but I do sometimes get a bit of fomo when it comes to pride, raves/parties, cruising scenes etc. I'm wondering if there's anyone else in here in a similar situation who has advice on how they participate in things while still taking as many precautions as they can. obviously, I know there's no way to go to a big event and completely avoid covid and other airborne risks, especially if masks aren't required and air filtration isn't up to par, but I also am almost 30, live in a city, and have no friends in the city, just my 2 partners... Outside of work I have no social life and it kinda kills me a bit.

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If anyone has more experience participating in various queer scenes as a covid conscious person, I'd love to hear what's up!