Advice from guys with partners whose feet they're not crazy about

Hello. I'm seeking advice from guys with gfs or wives whose feet they're not very attracted to and how they manage their foot fetish without outright leaving the relationship. I've seen on some posts in the past of people saying they'd leave as they can't be in a relationship with someone whose feet they don't find pretty, and all power to them, but that's not what I want for me and my relationship. I don't want feet of all things to be the thing that ends a relationship I genuinely care about and enjoy outside of the fetish.

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But yeah, I'm not that into my gfs feet. They're just ok to me. I've had many great experiences with them in our sex life but unfortunately still get most of my "fix" from social media and sexual content like porn, which I know some people would detest and some would see as ok. Idk what's right or wrong as that heavily depends on personal and relationship values and boundaries, but I'm seeking sex therapy as well to manage the fetish side of my life in what ever ways possible.

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Even if you don't have advice, just knowing I'm not alone in this struggle would be nice. I go through a lot of fomo seeing so many guys on the internet talk or joke about their love for their woman's feet and i simply can't relatevat all even though I wish I could.

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I'd rather not be demonized for this because I often see guys get ostracized for not being into every physical aspect of their partner and downright told to leave even though a lot of people have to compromise and accept that their partner isn't their 100% ideal fantasy or whatever, which is fine. But far too often I see the internet criticize the people's character and advise ending the entire thing instead of being nuanced, actually helping find solutions, and accepting that not everyone's situation is black & white, good & evil and worthy of extreme measures.

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But yeah, guys who aren't very attracted to their partners' feet but love them as people and chose to stay, what do you do about your fetish? Again, I don't think issues like this always have to be considered dealbreakers for everyone. My life is not yours and vice versa. Part of long-term relationships to me is making it work even if wjen its hard