I know it’s not healthy but

I drink daily, eat healthy, don’t exercise as much as I should, hold down two full time jobs (I work from home), health markers are borderline. I will get drink too much every know and then and get drunk. All this is at home. I don’t have a big social life or many friends. My family is my friend group. I don’t know why I do it because I can go without. Since I work from home I do take on many household chores as well. My wife works outside of the home and manages the money. Honestly I pretty much do everything else. She doesn’t like that I drink and gets upset if I get drunk. I don’t feel like I’m hurting anyone but obviously it is doing something to her. She recently asked me if I had drank a Certain day and I said no but then she told me she was counting beers. Now she is upset that I lied.. I know what the final answer is but is there no one else out there that does this and has no problem functioning and is healthy and leads a normal life?