34 [M4F] OKC/Anywhere - A beard, A Stutter, and someone who definitely feels too much.

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I want someone.

That feels weirdly direct but yeah. I do.

I want someone who will miss me and actually wants to be missed back. Someone who doesn’t care if my grammar falls apart here and there or if I bounce between topics because my brain refuses to stay in one lane for too long. Someone who reads that and doesn’t get annoyed, maybe even likes it a little.

I want someone who thinks it’s kind of cute that I’m into history, Broadway shows, and for some reason doesn’t see that as a downside. Maybe even finds it a little attractive.

I want someone who’s okay with feelings. Not just the easy ones either. The heavier ones. The kind that make you stare at your screen for a minute before you decide what to say back.

I’ve always liked that idea that you can meet someone and it feels like you’ve known them before, even when you haven’t. Like if things were just slightly different, different timing, different place, you would’ve found each other already. Having comfort in the daydream of laying on a couch together telling each other random facts you discovered on Wikipedia.

I don’t know. I think I’m looking for that feeling more than anything.

For context, I’m a bear of a man. Beard. Blue eyes that people notice sometimes, just not Daniel Craig in Casino Royale level so let’s keep expectations reasonable. I have a stutter. I’m basically useless without glasses or contacts. I’m married, no kids, just pets and a snake that I’m pretty sure is just waiting for me to die so it can inherit the house.

If you read all of this and something about it clicked, even a little, I’d like to hear from you.

Tell me an interesting fact you know or something about you that sounds fake but isn’t. Those are usually the best kinds of stories anyway.

Let’s see what happens.

Posted Jun 12, 2026, 11:39 PM UTC

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