[M4F] Do You Love Prostitution Scenarios? Let's Talk About it!

I always have a blast with my conversation posts, so I'm back again, this time looking to chat about sex work. Mostly street prostitution, but we could expand it to brothels, strippers, even porn perhaps. This is a conversation, not a first person roleplay. I want to speak openly and with some distance, not pretend there's anything going on between us. I do a lot of roleplaying, some erotica writing, but my sex life is vanilla. I tend to think of fantasies more as erotic fiction than actual intentions so please don't take anything here as indictive of my actual views. We can talk about our fantasies, but please start with something more than "I've always fantasized about being a whore."

As for what I like about prostitution, let's start with the obvious. Women doing everything they can to attract attention. Looking their best, wearing sexy outfits, revealing just enough to let you know what's on the market. Quick, easy access to casual sex.

Usually I'm not a fan of casual sex. I like sex to have weight. They should feel something: love, fear, shame, anger, power. Sometimes more than just "it feels good." But prostitution is more. It's transactional, but not reciprocal. She gets money, but has no expectation of emotional or sexual gratification. That's what makes this truly casual sex for the client. No fretting about pleasing her. She's there to please him. There's a power imbalance. It's dehumanizating. Selling herself as a commodity, as meat. He gets to own her for the night.

That's not to say I don't care about the female side of this. I'm always imagining both sides of a fantasy. I love having layers here. The real woman underneath and the customer service face in front. Where does one end and the other begin? How do they change over the encounter?

I've always been attracted to darker kinks, but prostitution is a great scenario to explore them in moderation. There's so much already baked into the transaction, but also a lot of subtlety that gets lost in the extreme. Of course, I also find it exciting when things go really, really wrong.

I'd love to include things like BDSM, humiliation, degradation, or even just rough sex. Anything to capitalize on that exploitative element. Of course we can take this as far as you like or leave it out.

I don't like ultra-poverty sob stories. That's just depressing. I'd rather it be just a job. The money is important, but more an incentive than a coercion. I wouldn't take things so far as human trafficking, forced prostitution, or routine abuse. Immoral stuff is only really fun when it's the dom doing it.

I do have lighter kinks too. Romance, kissing, undressing. Clothes are super fun to write and sexy to think about. Female orgasms is maybe my second biggest fetish. Something I've always loved is age gaps. Not necessarily huge pervy ones. Just a few years. College freshman and a senior. Enough that one is supposed to be more mature and experienced. That can make for a fitting, slightly exploitative power differential, or extra humiliation when it's inverted. I also love interracial pairings, which works great with sex tourism. A big part of prostitution fantasies is that, objectively it's good to respect women, but it's so much more fun not to, and that gets extra spicy with a racial angle. Exotic settings and exotic women, all quite cheap, would make for one hell of a vacation.

Anyways. Let's leave something for the actual discussion.

If you want to talk, please send a Chat invite. If you've messaged me before and not gotten a response, use the link and give the chat a name so the request shows up. Or just do it if you want brownie points.

I'd love to talk to someone who's curious, even if we don't share all the same kinks. We can pry into each other's fantasies, our relationship to them, our ethical views on the subject, etc. Again, not looking to actually roleplay, but I love the early OOC interactions of finding out what someone likes, getting inspiration, planning, scheming.