Dating in College?

Hi guys. I’m a 19 year old college student living in SoCal. I finished my first year of college a month ago and while I had a few hookups here and there, nothing really major happened.

I see a lot of my straight friends getting into relationships or continuing them, but I’m kinda just left here wondering how do guys like us find relationships, especially in college?

I feel like gay guys are more cruisey and looking for hookups in college than the normal population, and it doesn’t help that some people don’t even give us a chance because we’re Asian.

How do you genuinely find a more serious relationship that’s more than just sex in college? It’s not like I’m actively looking for a partner but being honest it’s been hard to go all of high school with no love life at all, and to have that continue into college which are supposedly your best years.

Any advice or stories are welcome from one Gaysian to another :). Thanks!