Outlander episode 9

Jamie went out of his way to help Claire many times he really does care about her that’s EXACTLY why he wanted her to stay put so NOTHING HAPPENS. she just killed someone and he doesn’t want her ever having to go through that again and your telling me after she broken the promise, Jamie saves her life and she’s offended that he’s asking for an apology? I don’t care that she’s trying to get home like how selfish could you be to not take accountability for putting her life and everyone else’s in danger. All she had to do was say sorry to him but she just wanted to argue back just because and her rebuttals weren’t even counters it was just known facts. Like yes it’s the 1700s you aren’t equal to men in this period you are just property and yes you were going to get raped by Randall but YOU put yourself in that situation after being told to stay in one place, then she’s saying basically that she’s just being used for sex like huh?? You’re telling me he risked his life and went out to help and save you so many times because he wants sex? She was throwing a tantrum FOR NO REASON. ALL she had to do was say sorry but it took her the entire day to realize it. I get that she’s trying to get home but she’s the only one that knows. She treats everyone else as if it’s their fault she’s in that situation. It makes no sense