[42F4AM] Tell this 42-year-old wife how to edge herself tonight — I need rules

Hi everyone, I'm a 42F, curvy mom of two who's been married forever but loves sneaking in some solo fun when the house is quiet. My pussy has been throbbing all day thinking about giving up control.

Please give me a set of rules for tonight: how long to edge, what toys (I have a vibrator and dildo), how many edges before I can cum (or if I can't at all), positions, and any extra tasks like nipple play or spanking my ass. I want to feel owned and desperate. Bonus if you make me describe how wet I am after each edge.

I'll follow whatever you decide and report back if you want. Who's taking charge of this horny 42-year-old body?