Is it normal to question all the bad things before having sex?
Im hooking up with this chick for the first time tomorrow, I never met we met on Tinder I’m still a virgin at 23 years old and I’m a bit nervous. I’m nervous that I could get her pregnant. I’m nervous that you know. Maybe I can’t get it up.
Are these normal things to think about before going to have sex? It feels like everybody around me just has sex and I would be really upset if something was to happen when it’s my turn even though I’m going to be wearing a condom and I’ve already tried them on to make sure they work.
I just wanna know that like I can just have sex too you know and not have to face any consequences, especially when I’m taking precautions. I’m not I’m not doing what you know. Couples might do where they just don’t use a condom. I do because I’m just meeting up with a this girl on Tinder. Is this normal questioning? Have you guys ever questioned these things as well? Is it normal?
Ps I wrote this with terrible punctuation. I’m currently just speaking out of my AirPods to write this. I don’t have my other hands to use right now to fix this.
Posted Jun 12, 2026, 11:47 PM UTC