Quick rant

How do I get more brave and stop being a people pleaser? I stay friends with people who can be mean to me at times and I do get hurt but I tell myself that they’re probably going through a rough time and probably didn’t mean to and that I’m probably overthinking it. I care too much about how others feel and I overthink everything, and I feel like I’m too sensitive at times. If someone changed their tone in a negative way while talking to me I’ll be overthinking what I said or did. At times I feel really annoying, and just to clarify: I’m not a clingy person. If anything I’m really really talkative, and I get along with others really fast ans with all types of people and I get hurt at the end. I can’t seem to place boundaries if my life depended on it which sucks, I feel like I’m too nice for those who don’t deserve it, but whenever I try to stand up for myself I feel like the meanest person in the world after.
Sorry for the huge rant 😅