21 [M4F] #Grand Rapids Michigan- Looking to meet someone cool and older

Hey everyone, I am Ben 21M and I am looking to meet a cool older woman to talk with on here and get to know first before giving her my virginity. I’ve always been attracted to older women and I’d love to lose my virginity to one but first I will need to get to know one another first. As I am not comfortable losing it to someone I don’t know on a semi personal level, or someone I just haven’t clicked with. Obviously I don’t want to be in love with each other but I at least want to be friends first. Plus in my eyes sexual stuff is better with those you know and trust, not some stranger