Why prolong the pull

When is suicide an appropriate response... Why stay when you pass this thing that happened to you to all those around. If it destroys relationships that would be ok if not here... They help old people and those who suffer move on...why stay here waiting for something that will never happen... A way forward that doesn't hurt... And for those around to know the pain you live with and to help with it.. if it happened to you why drag it out so others feel any of it... Would you rather rip the bandaid off and start healing or pull it slow and feel every hair ripped from its folical or peel new skin that did not hurt before... Why torture rather than heal.