Found out the girl I use to see has a sugar daddy and I have info on her. what do I do?

Found out the girl I was seeing has a show dancing account and has a sugar daddy and I have info on her. what do I do?

I was seeing a girl (let’s call her Jill) for a few months. She was new to my country. When we first met, she had a boyfriend back home : a two-year relationship they were doing long distance. After a few weeks together, she told me they’d broken up and we started dating properly.

Things were going well. We clicked, had great times together. Then I went travelling solo for a month, came back, reached out — and she told me she was seeing someone. Felt strange given how things were between us.

While she was on my radar, I’d found a second Instagram account under a different name. Turns out she works as a show dancer at a nightclub in her country and keeps a separate account for it. She has no idea I found it.

Then last night, a friend of a friend dropped a bombshell. Jill is now with a guy much older than her. A full sugar daddy situation. He knows because Jill brought their whole friend group to a VIP table at a club, and the sugar daddy was present and paid for the table and all the drinks.

ATM, Jill is currently overseas and I’m fairly certain he’s funding that trip too.

Here’s where it gets messier. Her ex-boyfriend. the one she claimed to have broken up with back home actually works at the same nightclub where she does her show dancing. That’s how they originally met.

she recently visited her home country, and she had dinner with with her ex or bf. So I’m now questioning whether they were ever actually broken up or not

So I’m sitting here with her address here , her workplace, her secret dancing account, her friends she’s made in my city instagrams and her ex bf Instagram.

what would you actually do with all this? Soft revenge.

P.S I don’t care for her no more but I want to bring some sense out of her

Posted Jun 12, 2026, 11:55 PM UTC

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