R/saveface

Why would a man who knows you suspect he’s gay still try to force you to be with him? Like rainbow peakin out his butt basically but still hellbent on convincing you it’s all in your head? I’m not talking, an unspoken thing between two adults. I’m talking about pathological abuse. Ya’ll need to stop that shit and either be alone, or be with a pansexual woman who consents to a lavender dynamic. I’m sorry I mean no disrespect, I know it’s not exactly easy to come out but why the need to bring down a woman for your gain? Why not let that woman live, and be loved by someone who can actually be what she requires?