40m married and lonely

40m married 10 years sexless marriage. I’m in pretty good shape but not a model. Looking to find a connection and intimacy. Looking for someone in the same situation. I’m ok with anything online or chat based but not looking for real life meetup. I want someone I can have a relationship with online but not blow my life up. Love books ( fantasy) ,Legos, video games, steaming series, starwars! I’m a nerd at heart but wouldn’t necessarily get that Impression by looking at me. Dm if interested !

Let me know your favorite fantasy series ?