Is there any term that sounds similar to lesbian in actual like word that covers what I feel?

What it says on the tin., details below. For why I'm really attached to the lesbian term but I'm not one unfortunately not want to use it for that reason/respect to the actual lesbians out there.

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Woman/primarily fem being ~ consistently unless my aro/ace-ness takes over from there and makes me hate everyone.

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Nonbinary/primarily neutral beings ~ depends on the person

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Men/primarily masc beings ~ no. Just out of choice and like...no ew? Who would do that???

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Other details: I'm pretty sure I'm chronically pan-curious??? Also open to like at least trying femboys and butches even if not my preference? Mostly it's femininity in both gender and presentation, both matter lol.

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Oh yeah also on both aro and ace spectrums.

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I'm sorry if this is long or inconvenient to read. Thank you for your time.

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~ Infinity