What was your moment when you realized you had no boundaries?

I was working on my computer when my ... friend came to me and said to do THIS... blah blah

Now there is a thought process that started in my head: "Hey... he didn't ask... just said" And from there on I realized that people just come to me when they want work and never to relate to me or something and .... I realized that I never had any boundaries.

When was your moment? Did you ever feel like THIS hard