Is denial really that good?

I’ve recently been introduced to the idea of orgasm denial from a close friend of mine She says she absolutely loves it. She has an online dom who controls her pleasure (among other things), and apparently she’s never felt more satisfied with her sexual life ever before. She’s feeling truly in touch with her sexual side, and discovering a ton of new kinks, understanding more about herself.

This sprouted a debate between me and her. I don’t believe that being denied pleasure and orgasms, and submitting this much control, can be in any way a positive experience.

Obviously, she believes the contrary. No true way to settle this, unless I get to try the experience myself firsthand.

Thus, here I am. I’ve come to the lion’s den. Prove me wrong. Try and show me how great this whole thing can be. I still don’t believe it.