Shy guy problems.
I hope someone can relate to this or help please. Please dont tell me there was too much alcohol. i know that.
So 2 weeks ago was my best friends wedding . Her and her new husband have been wanting me to meet the husbands best friend. He flew over from another state .
When he had seen a photo of me he had said i am cute and called me princess jasmine. i also thought he was cute. But we never spoke until we met at the wedding.
The husband had been telling me all about him but also kept emphasizing how shy & quiet he is. The husband told me a story of how he liked a girl but didn’t have the courage to ask for her number & would just go to her work place and stare at her. Which surprised me because I saw pics of him and he is very attractive.
Anyways . Let’s call him Adam. So Adam had seen pics of me and had said I’m cute and excited to meet me.
We never spoke or anything and then he flew over a day before the wedding, and we all went out for a pre dinner and drinks . He was on the quieter side but also kept trying to converse with me. No flirting but just getting to know me, smiling a lot.
Then we all left and the next day was the wedding. Again Adam kept staring at me but on this day through the day he didn’t talk to me much but was always near me. But every time I started talking to him he would engage happily.
At the Wedding dinner he sat across from me. He had a few drinks and suddenly started chatting it up and making jokes. His other friend I think noticed something & also kept jabbing at things … making it obvious I was into him. We were all taking about dating and i mentioned I don’t like guys of my own ethnicity, and the friend asks me out loud if I would date guys from Adam’s ethnicity. WHY DID HE SAY THAT? WAS THAT A HINT?
The guys wanted to keep going out after the dinner & me and another girl decided to join. I feel like this is where I messed up. Because we went to a bar and he drank more & I drank too and I feel like I just wouldn’t shut up. He then kissed me but then pushed me away and told me to stop because he doesn’t like kissing, but then he came back again and grabbed me and felt me up. I want to say this was for sure the alcohol.
But then he acted normal and put his arm around me, so It wasn’t awkward. I just felt awkward.
Also I asked for his number and he put it in my phone.
Anyways we all went back home to our own place.
He flew back home. And will be visiting again soon.
I text him a video of something we were talking about, but never got a reply back.
confused if there’s any interest at all
Posted Jun 13, 2026, 11:28 PM UTC