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Hey everyone,I’m a married woman in my late 20s/early 30s. I’ve been with my husband for many years and honestly, our sex life has become really difficult for me. He is very rough and aggressive during intimacy — it feels more like he’s just using me to finish rather than actually making love. He doesn’t take time for foreplay, doesn’t care if I’m comfortable or aroused, and never asks what I want or need. Most of the time it’s painful, quick, and leaves me feeling used and disconnected. I’ve tried talking to him multiple times about slowing down, being gentler, and focusing on mutual pleasure, but he gets defensive and says “this is normal for men” or just ignores it completely.I still love him as a person and we have a good life otherwise, but this one area is slowly killing my desire and self-worth. I feel guilty even thinking about it, but I miss feeling desired, respected, and actually satisfied.Ladies (especially married ones), has anyone else faced something similar? How did you handle it? Did things improve or did you find other ways to feel fulfilled? I’d really appreciate honest thoughts mo judgment please, just real experiences. Feeling quite alone in this.Thank you

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