Do you have advice for someone before they get married?

Hello, i am a fairly young individual, around the age of marriage where everyone around me is getting married.

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Today my uncle and aunty were giving me advice. My uncle has been divorced twice and my aunt was married and her husband died. One of their main advices was to sign a contract before you marry, so that you're protected.

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They also advised that emotionally attachment is there but never let that blind you from seeing the problems in your marriage.

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My question is to people who have divorced or going through divorces, what do I as a young women need to put in a contract? And how do I not form such a deep emotional connection with the man I am marrying, as to not overly emotionally invest?

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Also, what are things that I need to consider before marriage?

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Also, what do I put into a marriage contract in terms of if we have kids?

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If you have any other advice, please I would really appreciate it. Thanks.