CMV during pregnancy am I overreacting
Hi guys I just want to know if I’m overreacting or if I should be patient with ob. So I went for my first appt to an ob and after he asked me to test for cmv i wasn’t showing any signs and neither was baby but he said he has all patients test. I did and he called me on the Friday to say that I’m positive for cmv then proceeded to say it could be active now or I could’ve had it before but he will need to check but I’ll have to wait till my appt on Monday afternoon to find out more. I text him on Saturday asking a question about whether 2 positives an igg and igm on cmv test means this is your first time actively having the virus he said yes and I then asked do I have that or 1 positive 1 negative on my blood test and then he left me on read. I’m super frustrated that he gave me half the knowledge on a Friday and expects me to stew with it till Monday rather than just telling me everything on Monday or everything on Friday. I feel like making someone wait over a weekend for all information is just cruel. Am I overreacting? How have other people in this situation been told?
Posted Jun 13, 2026, 11:35 PM UTC