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Tops: do you prefer a vocal bottom or a quiet one?

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I’ve noticed people seem pretty split on this during hookups/sex. Some seem to really like when a bottom is vocal and expressive because it helps them gauge enjoyment, while others prefer things to be more low-key and quiet. For those who top, do you have a preference? Does it actually change your experience at all, or is it just dependent on the person?

Posted Jun 13, 2026, 11:37 PM UTC

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