If you were born into a very poor family and attained 'means' through a well-paying job or whatnot, how did you navigate questions of how much support you would give to others?

This question comes to mind because all though I believe in generosity, sharing and whatnot, the idea that you somehow 'owe' members of your family who may still be struggling is a tad problematic.

It seems like entitlement culture really is oozing into everything so that it's easy to feel like a failure whatever you do.