Is There Any Point In Even Trying?

I (31M) have never been on a date. Not for lack of trying. I asked dozens of people who I knew were single, didn't get a date. I've tried every app there is, nothing. I've tried volunteering hobbies, everything I can think of. Nothing. I know, I know, women don't owe me anything, but after a few years, beings told nothing except no takes a toll on you.

And before you say anything, no, I'm not a creep. I shower everyday, shave everyday, smell good, decent shape, and I don't catcall or send dick pics. When I got matches, I would read over their profile and ask a question related to their interests. Nobody ever replies. My therapist is no help. He keeps telling me I'm not ready instead of telling me what to do. And no, getting a new one isn't an option right now. Should I just give up and accept I missed my chance?