I'm in love with a white guy but my parents will not accept. Mum might but dad won't n uncles won't.

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I'm in love with a white guy n in my family especially the men won't accept. Is it okay to do a nikah without them? One thing I'm scared about is I love mum but she'll most likely be sad that I married without her n my family meaning my uncles will tell my mum off. Any advise on how to do it. And if I tell my mum she'll tell my dad n so on everyone will know. I don't wanna risk that but I also don't wanna tell mum last min. I don't know how to introduce him either. Mostly they won't accept n cut me off. Then that also becomes another problem that I won't have any support. Just thinking about security I won't have anyone to lean on if something bad happens later.not that I think it will but I like to be prepared for anything. I love my mum n I don't wanna break her heart and I love my man (first relationship) n I want to be with him.

Please help