When duality is obviously the illusion.

Its been on my mind more often then usual, non duality. I could also say that non duality invites the self to notice more often. But its because there is still a dualistic self that makes up these possibilities right?

Non duality really wipes everything out. My thoughts are there, I can make use of it. But they are not real, because the mind is dualistic. Is nonduality maybe just mental then?

Because reality does have opposites. Left, right, up, down, moving, still. The answer is no again and it gets harder to really accept, that everything dual is a illusion.

The illusion is here though, sun comes up, sun goes down. I am, I breathe, I need to do things. But it's just not real!

How about spirituality? And for that the question is simply, what spirituality are we talking about? There is no future or a past, if its not right now right here, its not real. Its not even a realistic goal to pursue. Its a goal in the illusion which always begins with thought. We can make plans for the future or have hopes for the future. Its all thought, dual, thus not real.

There is no becoming, because it takes time. There is no learning because there is no self. And no self cannot learn from anything dual. There is no self with a natural habitat of monoistic society.

There is no self with learned ability to help another with their dualistic problems. There is no life no death, all words with meaning in the dualistic illusion.

So there is the need to get past it all, but its an illusion of self, a false self with some imaginative need. The body, this reality, the me.. everything I can know. Leave everything and everyone behind I guess.

It this the only way to what? Really helping people is to not do anything? Dont say anything till they get it?