The idea of oneness is just as much BS as the idea of separation

This conclusion has been extended from my thinking, and I have to admit, I'm a little confused, although the confusion itself is by no means an issue. Confusion obviously has no hold over the reality of the Truth, but passion leads a momentum toward conceptual understanding, so I have to ask here: Is there a way I can conceptualize the seeming contradiction between Truth and confusion? Just for fun.
As I'm writing this, I'm having this intense feeling of having a question that I would die to know the answer to, but once I try to form the question, I realize it's a question I can't really ask, nor can I tell myself what the question is so that I can ponder this. Not sure if this is normal, but I think it's a sign I just need to let go of needing an answer. Because obviously no answer I get is going to be the Truth, right? I guess a part of me is coming here to look for validation that it's okay to stop seeking for an answer (that doesn't exist) to a question (that also doesn't exist)