35 [NB4R] Looking for service oriented submissive in #Fresno or #SanFrancisco or #LosAngeles
Experienced Dominant Femme seeking service oriented submissive of any gender to regularly help clean and organize My dwelling, ideally for most of a day once every 4-6 weeks with maintenance contact, connection, and communication in between.
Requirements:
-Local or willing to travel to the Fresno area. I have an extra bed to accommodate overnight needs as necessary for travelers.
-Willing to submit to a background check, regardless of gender identity. I need to know who I am inviting into My space.
-Reasonably comfortable with taxidermy materials. Most are framed specimens, and I would not require you to touch anything dead. In fact I would not allow it until a certain amount of care and ability for delicate touch has been well demonstrated elsewhere.
-Does not expect sexual attention as part of this exchange. Other types of nonsexual play are negotiable.*
-Capable of adequate cleaning and organizing skills. This is not a chance to “earn punishment” for doing a poor job intentionally. This will lead to being let go from service.
-Courteous without a need to be overly formal, especially early on as we are getting to know each other. Expect emotional intimacy to happen over time.
-A sense of relative independence when given tasks. Of course there will be lots of communication early on as you are learning My preferences, but I do not desire to micromanage someone who is supposed to be doing Me a service.
-Confidence to ask for clarification if you don't understand a request as given, especially as you are learning My preferences and I am learning your communication style.
-Not allergic to dogs. While My baby is no longer with us, as any good Australian Shepherd supplies, his “glitter” is pretty well embedded in corners and crevices. I would hate to have someone go through the entire screening process and be unable to physically tolerate My home.
-Not allergic to latex. I have a collection, and while it mostly resides at the Fox Den, I do maintain care of a few pieces at home.
-Use “Application for service” as the subject line of your message so I know that you read through this list.
-Reliable and able to commit to scheduling at least a few weeks in advance.
Nice to haves:
-Having your own transportation. I have ample parking at my place, but there is also an Amtrak/Greyhound hub in Fresno. I would prefer that you have the ability to come and go as we BOTH please. I am not here to force anyone into this arrangement.
-Femme, non-binary, genderqueer, or otherwise trans identified preferred-but open to all gender identities and expressions.
-Someone who finds satisfaction with a job well done.
-Reference(s) from one or more Dom(me)s who you have served in a similar capacity.
-Comfortable taking photos and/or having photos taken. Face or identifying markings can be obscured upon request.
-Be independently wealthy and willing to pay all of my bills. (Kidding…but what if?)
Potential perks for you (negotiations will start upfront, but be ongoing as we develop our dynamic):
-Gaining a reference from an esteemed lifestyle and Pro-Domme for excellence in service and communication skills.
-Possibilities for nonsexual play, either in public settings (like parties) or in private, depending on comfort levels and mutual desires.
-A sense of satisfaction in great service.
-Opportunities for bottoming experience in multiple facets.
-Opportunities for service in “public” outside of cleaning (play parties, private events, etc. Most of these will be in the SF Bay Area.)
-Opportunity to be listed as in a D/s relationship on Fetlife, if both of us desire.
What I bring to the table:
-A solid display of emotional intelligence.
-10+ years of experience as a lifestyle Domme/switch.
-Reliability in scheduling and communication.
-Excellent banter. I want this to be fun and light while we're collaborating on My space.
-Ability to give honest references to other Providers.
-Willingness and ability to teach someone willing and independent in their tasks.
-Playfully sadistic style of Dominance.
-Ability to inspire those wishing to be in service.
Inquiries must be sent to my inbox.
No explicit messages will be entertained. Do not address Me with an honorific or as your Domme until we have agreed to proceed. Do tell Me about your relevant experience, your hopes for our potential arrangement, and your pets (both animal and human-switches make excellent bottoms!) Please include your Fetlife or other social media handles as applicable. Inquiries to any other platform or address will be ignored.
Regards,
Mx. Apex (Delia) Leigh
*I understand that sometimes our bodies react in a way that appears sexual in nature, even if the desire isn't for sexual contact in itself. If this applies to you, I do not judge. Simply be honest in negotiations.
Posted Jun 13, 2026, 11:46 PM UTC